Dec 082009
 
MirrorPeople whose personalities and actions tend to push our buttons the most are generally our greatest teachers. These individuals serve as our mirrors and teach us what needs to be revealed about ourselves. Seeing what we don’t like in others helps us look deeper inside ourselves for similar traits and challenges that need healing, balancing, or changing.
When someone is first asked to understand that an irritating person is merely offering him a mirror image of himself, he will strongly resist this idea. Rather, he will argue that he is not the angry, violent, depressed, guilt-ridden, critical, or complainer person that his mirror/teacher is reflecting. The problem lies with the other person, right? Wrong, not even by a long shot. It would be convenient if we could always place the blame on the other person, but this is not always so easy. First ask yourself “If the problem truly is the other fellow’s and not my own then why does being around that person affect me so negatively?”
Our Mirrors May Reflect:

Our Shortcomings

    Because character flaws, weaknesses, etc. are more easily seen in others than in ourselves our mirrors help us to be able to see our short comings more clearly.

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Oct 182009
 

What A Girl Really Wants From Her Life?

what a girl wantsThough the question looks tricky its not hard to answer and understand also. Girls are better mature than Man’s as there brain gets puberty before a Man’s. Their thinking is different but almost all girls have shown few common nature and answered similarly when asked “What A Girl Wants From Her Life”.

I am just listing out the common things that I found after the survey .

ChildHood Time, Wanted to get noticed somebody amongst 1000 others.(100%-All Girls said it.)

Had there own world of fantasy. Always had a gist for doing something which is fully out of the world.

But When asked why didn’t you were able to do it, everybody answered the same “Because nobody looked after our fantasy”. A girls life starts with sacrificing and ends in also sacrificing.

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